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++++++ - - Dr. Chadwick's Email Circular - - ++++++
Brief comments to encourage faithful Christian living.
++++++++++ - - - May 8, 1999 - - - ++++++++++
Mothers provide faithful and caring supervision.
Why is it that in our society, when parents separate, we most often place the children with the mother? Obviously, it's because mothers almost always seem more concerned about the welfare of their children.
We accuse them of "worrying" too much, but would we have it any other way? Mothers are concerned about foods and vitamins, wet feet and hats, homework and friends and flute practice and bed time. They want to know when you have to leave, when you're coming home, where you are, where you've been, who you're with and who you've been with and where do they live and who are their parents, and what are you going to do when you're there, who else is going to be there, and how are you going to get there and how you'll get home. They want to be sure your underwear is clean in case you get into an accident; that you have on deodorant and that you've brushed your teeth and combed your hair and cleaned the corners of your mouth.
And this is not bad. In fact, if there is a father in the home, he is wise to let the mother take the lead here, and provide full support for her leadership. A lady once asked me, "Why is it that my husband always has to be the expert in everything?" Fathers, let me tell you, you're not the expert in child care, your child's mother is, so let her lead.
And when "Junior" comes whining to Dad, "Mommy says I have to wear my boots outside", Dad says, "Then wear your boots!"
But to mothers comes this challenge - don't let anyone talk you out of, or hinder you from providing constant, caring supervision for your children. The world will tell you that you can do better, there's a more important job waiting for you. Besides, other people can supervise your kids, and aren't TV and videos wonderful? Don't you believe it.
And furthermore be sure you're learning how to do supervision better and better.